If I do another post in this current series, I promise to think of another title. But, let’s face it, it really was a clever title, and coming up with titles is my weakest area as a writer.
I’m writing in response to Jeff Haws, webmaster of The Atheocracy, self-described “irreverent journalist, atheist, political junkie, golfer, outdoors lover, sports fan, beer drinker and movie/music snob, along with many other things.” Hmmm. I’m not a professional journalist, but I’m surely irreverent. I’m not an atheist. I hate politics. My dad is a golfer, and I love the outdoors, sports, beer, and movies. It seems Jeff and I are just the sort of people who could get into a very interesting debate. Jeff commented on a recent post, and I thought I’d take a look at what he has to say.
You’re absolutely right that, without the Bible, morality is left in some part up to the individual. But that’s not what you said in your earlier post. You asked (and this is a paraphrase because I’m, typically, too lazy to go back and get the exact quote) “Without God, what reason would you have to be moral?” Why not just say, “Without God, your life is largely up to you” instead of inferring that Atheists have no reason to be good people? I think this was what caught my eye in your post.
What Jeff has demonstrated here–entirely without realizing it–is the real objection to theism from atheists. He draws an a distinction where I never intended one: between the statements that without God, morality is up to the individual and that without God there is no reason to be moral. I believe both statements are true, but I also believe that they are related to one another. I suppose that is why I fail to make a clear distinction between the two.
From my perspective, the real objection to theism from atheists has nothing to do with rational disproofs of God’s existence, nor with rejection of traditional history, but with the obedience component that necessarily flows from being a created being. In fact, atheists want to live their lives their way with no “invisible daddy” hovering over them and telling them how to live.
There is no argument in this paragraph, so I will leave what I have said thus far alone for now, perhaps expounding on it in a future article. Suffice it to say, I will draw a clearer distinction between the prospects of individualistic morality vs. reasons for morality in future writing. This is why I pay attention to honest critiques: to become a better and clearer writer.
The question that comes up with a lot of this “morality” is who decides it’s wrong. You’re making an invisible man the authority on what you should and shouldn’t do. Why? Why do we need a consistent set of morals across a society? We certainly have laws to regulate much of what you might consider in that realm (no alcohol on Sundays in Georgia, no gay marriage, no beastiality, etc.).
Were you a Christian, you would accept the authority of God to define morality for His creation. So the question of “who decides” isn’t a question at all for the Christian, only for the atheist who rejects God’s authority indirectly by rejecting the very idea that God exists.
Asking why we need a consistent set of morals underpins the point I made above: you want to live life your way, not God’s way. If you want to cheat on your wife, a consistent set of Christian morals says that that is not the right thing to do. If you aren’t attracted to your wife anymore, and want nothing further to do with your kids, the Christian ethic would be to swallow your selfishness and realize that life ain’t always about you.
But, on Planet Relativistic Morality, it’s okay to cheat on your wife and abandon your kids because your wife put on too much weight, your daughter won’t listen to you about the convicted felon she’s dating, and your son just came out of the closet and his boyfriend is coming over for dinner on Friday to meet the family. Forget denying your selfish impulses and dealing with your family crisis; on Planet Relativistic Morality, you need a break from all of that in the arms of a young and slender redhead who “understands you.”
On the flip side of this issue, I’m not saying that the Christian in that situation wouldn’t sleep with the redhead. But the Christian would have the words of the Apostle Paul to guide him:
[H]usbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. (Eph 5:28-32)
If that were your guide, an affair is out of the question.
Those laws Jeff mentions, by the way, were written when this country did subscribe to the Bible.
And when I said “I don’t know” what’s considered sexually immoral, I meant I don’t know what he meant as sexually immoral. I know what it means to me, but I have no way of knowing what it means to him without him telling me.
Exactly! You don’t know what he considers sexually immoral, he doesn’t know what you consider sexually immoral. If you’re married, what does your wife consider sexually immoral? Now, the Bible is clear on what matters are moral and immoral. If that is your guide, you eliminate the need to even ask the question.
Thanks again for commenting on my post, Cory. Feel free to visit my site any time. It’s always good to receive some counterpoints rather than it being a big Atheist Hugfest. Have a great weekend.
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